You know, I have to say I would have liked the Gato plays matchmaker (awkward!) scene a lot better if it hadn't been for the "you come off better when you are quiet" line. Again, probably not the effect they were going for but that had an icky "the feisty woman needs to shut up" element that I think could have been fixed if Sydney hadn't been so mortified.
THIS. The part where Gato roll played Sydney and told Lieberman how 'she' feels (and Jonathan's awesome horrified reaction) was funny, but telling a woman she comes off better when she's quiet? Oh, Hell No. And I must admit, I identify with Sydney on many levels. Including I can sometimes ramble on to the point of 'OMG, did I just say that???' But the way it came off was Gato schooling her on how to behave, especially if she wants to keep a man. GRRRRR. I'm getting angry again just replaying it in my head and discussing it here.